First time with a blog and I figure why not start on my birthday (
June 24, 2008)!?!? Shout out to
Tamara Hall and her blog to inspire me for this.
So....After three years of having birthdays in New York I decided to throw a birthday party for myself. Party was held last night June 23, 2008. Perhaps no party happened before because others didn't know when my birthday was... or that I didn't advertise. I've thrown tons of parties at other times, mostly dinner parties. I love sharing my food with others. I love looking at them while they take the first couple of bites and then say "Wow!" It's pretty awesome when I get that response... I love it!.. and when there is sauce involved it's "Sawesome" or "saucesome"... however you choose to spell it for yourself.
When I chose to throw a party for myself this year I thought about all the other parties that I've done and wondered "When was the last time I threw a birthday party for myself inviting friends?" After searching through the deep and dusty file cabinets of my brain I found out that it's been a long time... too long to post here. If I know you well enough then I'll tell you in person. If you don't know then it just proves to you that you should get to know me better then doesn't it! I've had plenty of parties with friends over the years... just not birthday parties. I've had plenty of birthday parties with my family over the years... although most of the time it's me being off on some adventure and talking with them on the phone so they can sing happy birthday to me.
One of my most memorable birthdays was in 1999 when I was working as a tour guide in Alaska. My co-worker scored me a fly-in fishing trip. The
King Salmon were running hard that year and since it was a free bee the
Ketchum's people took us
Northern Pike fishing. Still it was three kinds of awesome... There was one freak of nature that hit my fake frog lure so hard that it hooked above it's eye and that's how I reeled it in. The thing looked ticked... Not unlike some of you when you wake up in the morning I'd wager... ;) Thanks for entertaining the tangent!
My fabulous friends Victor and Natalie Monreal offered their apartment to host this party. I first met them a little over a year ago when they first moved into the LDS Inwood 1st Ward. A great couple. Crazy that I've now been in that ward for a year. Aging out of the Inwood 3rd Single's Ward like a fine wine or cheese... whatever sounds more enjoyable to you, since I don't drink wine I'll go with the latter. Invites went out through email and Facebook... and to let you readers get an idea of how long it's been since my last birthday party with friends... the Internet didn't exist for public use at that time.
I had several people
RSVP for this party, which is great! What is it about RSVPing? Or rather not RSVPing especially with church members? I don't get it... do they just expect it? I mean... it's common courtesy right? For the most part rules of the road tell you to turn on your blinker when you are making a turn... except lately I think they are now teaching in Driver's Ed. to not use your blinker because it might actually give others an idea of what you are about to do... So this is me on my soap box... when you RSVP you show respect and courtesy to the person throwing the party. When you don't RSVP you tell the person that they are not valuable/important enough in your life to bother. Personal observations for the majority of parties that I've thrown here in New York I've found that people are more courteous than people in other parts of the nation... Yay! Go New Yorkers!
Thank you to all of you who RSVP'd for this party! Thank you to all who showed up to the party. Thank you for bringing snacks and food. So glad that you enjoyed the Watermelon Gazpacho and the other food that was there. Another Special shout out to Victor and Natalie for hosting and for making that AWESOME birthday cake with the tea candles on top. There's no way that I could have had this great of a party at my place. Thank you! Thank you! For those of you statistically challenged/minded (however you choose to view it). The total number of people present was 34. There were some last minute cancelations through text message or personal message as well that would have pushed the total to 40. I was so touched and impressed. Thank you for helping me make this 32nd birthday of mine fierce and fabulous! Pictures will come in time.